Is female on male molestation overrated?

I remember when I was in 3rd grade, this 6 grade girl would touch me down there during recess and after school. I really didn't know what was going on until years later. Now looking back I realize this had zero effects on me even though it happened during my developmental years. I have a perfectly healthy outlook on relationships and the female gender. So is female on male molestation demonized for no reason? Especially when both the "victim" (I use the word loosely) and the ailant are both kids?