30 year old man and 35 year old woman, living common law, has 15 month old,?

they both work as bartenders, but after work in the last month, she did not come home till 3pm in the afternoon, after a Saturaday night of work. the same about 3 weeks later, stinking of booze both times. man who is my son, does all the housework, the shopping for groceries, and I the granmother takes the baby for walks, and have bought 80 per cent of all toys and books and clothes for baby. the baby at 15 months is not walking, and she does not eat by herself. as the mother slaps her small fingers, as the baby is trying to feed her self, as too much work for the mother to try letting the baby ffed herself would make a mess. If I am a busy body, then tell me, but I have been babysitting till 330 am, as she comes home after partying, and I am too tired. Last week I was there for 12 hours. I cooked dinner, beef stew.and she ordered out. (scallops) she has also been on anti depressants for 10 years, and her previous boy friend dumped her for taking hard drugs. I suspect drugs also, Hel